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The Charisma Gap Between Drunk & Sober You
Like most guys I found that girls generally reacted better to me after I drank a few beers. So when I started going out and seriously trying to improve my ability to talk to girls, I had one major question..
Could I ever be as outgoing, confident…

Are You Stuck? Change Your Beliefs to Change Your Life
I'll make a wager with you, let's risk $10. My bet is that you have not consciously chosen the beliefs that are dictating your success, happiness and way of interacting with other humans. That's unfortunate.. If you do nothing about it the…

How to Use Social Proof to Get Laid
Social proof = using advantageous circumstances to make yourself appear more attractive. Here's a few examples of how this can play out.
Luke lives in Las Vegas and goes to the same club a couple of times a week. He's a social guy and has…

3 Things that Every Guy Can Do to be More Attractive
Transforming yourself into a guy that women fight over can take years, even if you devote considerable energy to it. In the last 18 months I've talked to thousands of women and I'm still a long, long way from being all that I'm capable of. However,…

Can You Get Laid if you're not Good Looking?
In a word, yes. Looks are way less important to women than they are to men. Here are some things that matter more (by no means an exhaustive list).
Confidence. Confidence is the guy equivalent of boobs. Girls respond positively to it regardless…

The Secret of Using Social Pressure to Build Confidence
Joe Rogan, riffing on social pressure, in a conversation between him and Jamie Foxx.
You also get humbled a lot, as a comedian. You gotta get those jokes, you’re performing in front of a live audience, it’s all live, it’s gotta work.…

5 Ways to Never Run out of Things to Say to a Girl
Every man is capable of conversation, nobody ever runs out of things to say to their grandma. Guys run out of things to say to a girl because they're nervous to fully express themselves. Permanently fixing the problem comes down to talking to…

Getting the Cute Girl May Not Make You Happy
In Vietnam I met my ex-girlfriend, a beautiful Dutch girl. Skinny as a model, blonde hair, wonderful face. The moment I saw her I thought, Wow! I’d really love to be with a girl like that. I ended up getting my wish. For the next five months…

What is SMV? (Sexual Marketplace Value)
SMV stands for Sexual Marketplace Value (how desirable you are to the opposite sex). SMV can help you to understand men and woman's changing desirability and to pick a better long term mate when you're ready. Section 1 provides context and Section…